Recently I posted about how I tested a sleeping pill, that my cousin Maggie sent to me as a gift, through the mail, in a beautiful fleur-de-lis envelope. I was afraid to try the pills initially, since sometimes things that are supposed to make me sleep have the exact opposite effect. But, after taking one, I found myself pleasantly surprised and perhaps even a bit hopeful about the effects of the drug, which I started calling, My Precious.
Maggie gave me all kinds of advice about what I should do prior to taking My Precious. She expounded the fact that I should ingest no caffeine or wine that day, and I should sleep with earplugs and an eye mask. I didn’t abide by all of those rules, I figured I’d just try taking the pills to see what effect they had, and then go from there if I felt they had potential. No need to skip out on that glass of wine, if the pill wasn’t going to help anyway. Baby steps.
Last night, I popped two of the little French pills down my gullet, around 10.30pm and shockingly, I didn’t wake up until the morning! Not even once, just to pee. I’ve been thinking about this for a good 15 minutes or so, and really can’t remember the last time this happened. So far, so good. I still had some weird dreams, but they didn’t completely drain me of my energy. Side effects included a bit of dry mouth, and also dry eyes. In fact, I think part of my dream involved my eyes burning. It is highly likely that I slept with my mouth gaping open and my eyes open wider than usual. Perhaps the eye mask would be a good idea, after all.
Maggie has promised to send me more My Precious (I’m sure she is on her way to the post office right now. Right, Maggie?!) and is generously sharing her supply with me. Once “we” run out, we’ll have to take a trip to France, to restock. I’ve never been to France, so I am hoping these work, not only so I can feel somewhat rested, but also so I have an excuse to travel.
So, starting this blog has made me pay more attention to my sleep patterns, which I have pretty much brushed off up until this point. I’ve decided that a further investigation of sleep aids, and maybe even a sleep study, is needed. I will call this time period “My Search For Slumber”.
I am teacher, so initially I was thinking it would make sense that summer would be the ultimate time to test different sleep aids, since I’d have the benefit of not having to work the next morning. This seemed pretty important, in case I woke up feeling like a zombie, like I did when I tried taking Nyquil. At least over the summer, me being groggy or snarky or loopy, won’t be putting today’s youth at risk. But, after a bit of thought, and some prompting from my cousin, Maggie, it occurred to me that I am often zombie-like, snarky or loopy, anyway.
In fact, my husband often asks me constructive questions such as, “Are you EVER in a good mood?” To which I huff and roll my eyes. But, I do recognize that I am often NOT in a good mood. I’m exhausted. I don’t have the energy to get everything done around the house. Or to even do something that might be considered fun, like getting dressed up and going on a girls night out. In a vain attempt to get someone else (Husband) to cheer me up, maybe I do complain too much. And, maybe that isn’t fair, to ask of him. It also never works, so I don’t know why I keep trying that route. I’m ok at putting on a façade of normalcy when I am at work. But, that takes a lot of energy, and quite often after the work day is over, I want to collapse into a heap on the floor. Sometimes, this is exactly what I do.
This isn’t to say that I am never actually in a good mood. In fact, I’d say that I AM cheery and chipper, between 30-50% the time. But, on those days, I am almost manic. Hyper. Energetic. Excessively talkative. In one 24 hour period I jog, scrub the sinks and organize my closet. I get ahead on my paperwork. I scrapbook, I sew blankets, make homemade cards, design road rallys, and create elaborate themes for parties, I cut out pages within old books to create secret cavities for hiding secret objects. On these days, I am productive as hell. I am on top of the world! If only I could harness this energy and feel like this every day. (Sidebar: I have an irrational fear that someone will make me accidentally try heroin or meth and I will LOVE IT and feel like this every day, and I will become an addict, my face will turn skeletal and I will develop oozing sores all over my body, my husband will divorce me and I will die a pitiful, homeless, wreck. The horror!) If I see my sisters on days like this, they will ogle me and ask if I am okay. One of them in particular usually tries to make me tone it down, but of course I simply mock her for reprimanding me. This lasts for a period of days to weeks, and then I crash back down to reality. I usually land on my face. It hurts.
So, you might think that I possibly need to test out some other medications, than just the sleep aids. And you are probably right. However, I’m not ready to go there, quite yet (In anticipation of when that occurs, I have already named that time period, “My Search for Sanity”.) For now, I’m hoping that helping improve the quality of my sleep will result in a better quality of life when awake. How could it not?
So, my first test began last night. My cousin Maggie recently went on a trip to France. She, too, experiences some difficulty sleeping, so while there she discovered a French sleep aid that she refers to as, My Pretty. In a fantastic blog about her trip, she referenced the benefits of My Pretty several times and brought home several boxes with her. I like to imagine her scouring neighborhoods for any drug store within a 40 mile radius (or should I say 65 kilometer radius) and buying each and every one of them out of My Pretty. I picture her purchasing an extra duffel bag for the sole purpose of bringing as many My Pretties home as possible, her throwing out the boxes to save room for the good stuff, the case stuffed to the brim with pills, and perhaps a few chocolate croissants or baguettes shoved in for good measure. But, maybe this is just what I would do. She generously sent me a sample of My Pretty, and has been hounding me to try them. She sent me the informational pamphlet along with the pills, but of course it is in French. So, I have no idea what chemicals abound within the little square tablet. Could be carcinogens, neurotoxins, Anthrax. But, it could still be worth it.
So, I began My Search for Slumber last night and popped of the My Pretties down my throat before bed. I always read each night before going to sleep, and after about ½ hour I did notice my eyes getting particularly heavy. GOOD SIGN, since generally I start becoming MORE awake after about 8 pm or so. So, I was hopeful. I woke up 4 times, which is the typical amount of wakeups I generally experience. But, normally upon these wakeups I feel AWFUL. EXHAUSTED and angry about the fact that I am awake. Last night when I awoke, I didn’t feel so bad. So, other than the time I got up to pee (which occurs at minimum once per night), I just went back to sleep. I woke up okay. Not too tired. Could it be? Could it actually be helpful? Suddenly I am referring to this French tablet as, My Precious. I picture myself becoming hunch-backed, losing my hair, eyeballs starting to consume my entire face. I see myself ready to maim anyone who might try to take My Precious away from me. We’ll see if My Pretty really becomes My Precious. I would happily turn into Gollum, if it meant success in My Search for Slumber.